Tuesday, April 10, 2007

Spring Has Sprung

Happy Spring everyone!


I'm sorry I've been lax in my posting lately but who can think about blogging when it's so beautiful outside? I have the spring fever something terrible right now. It's so nice out I can barely drag myself back to the office after I escape for lunch. Not to mention that this week is (gasp!) mid terms! Oh, the horror.

One very cool outdoor activity I got to partake in was going to a horse show this past Saturday. In the past I've talked a little bit about my mom and her horse Kahlua-n-Cream. Mom and my step-dad got Kahlua from a group that rescues horses from Premarin farms in Canada. She's been growing up into a beautiful horse and she and my mom have been working very hard together, getting ready for this dressage show last weekend. I was lucky enough to get to hang around and see what all the hard work has been leading up to.


Horse shows are generally early morning affairs. When I was in high school, I remember many mornings, getting up well before the crack of dawn and trying to convince a sleepy horse to get into a trailer. Poor Shadow (my horse) would look at us like, "You have got to be kidding, right?" Mom would help me get all my tack together, make sure I had all my show clothes, all of Shadow's wraps and blankets and treats (a horse needs cookies too!) and we'd set off for yet another horse show. I usually went to hunter/jumper shows with Shadow. This involved a lot of me memorizing courses of jumps and Mom...not looking. She'd do all the hard work with me and then it would be just too much for her to watch.

I look back over my childhood and it is just filled with band concerts, horse shows, choir concerts, school plays, piano recitals, solo and ensemble festivals etcetera ad infinitum. My poor parents sat through endless hours of this stuff. They really should get some kind of medal or merit badge for all that time and unconditional support. Those seventh grade band concerts alone make me cringe for them.

Last Saturday, though, the shoe was on the other foot. There I was with my mom at a horse show and she was the one trying to remember her dressage test and I all I could do was pat Kahlua on the nose and tell Mom that she was going to be great. She rode two different training level tests which means she had to memorize two different "routines". No mean feat when you're riding a five year old filly who isn't always interested in staying in the arena, much less picking up the right lead in a twenty meter circle. I could barely watch the first test. I was so excited and nervous. I really wanted her to do well because she'd worked so hard and it meant a lot to her.
Well, they came out of the arena and everyone who had been watching clapped. They did great! We found out later that Mom and Kahlua got the highest score in that class so they got the blue ribbon! It was all very exciting and quite an accomplishment at their very first show. I felt like such the proud...daughter.

I can never say thank you enough to my mom for the years she's spent supporting me. Any time I've jumped into some new phase of my life, she's been there for me no matter what. I could call her tomorrow and tell her I've decided to take up Yak herding in the Andes and, as long as it made me happy, I know she'd help me pick out the best Yak herding gear and send me on my way. (as long as i promise to call often and come home for Christmas.) There is no "thank you" big enough for that. So, I'll just have to try and repay the favor as best I can...




Mom and "Lulu" riding training level test #1:








3 comments:

bazu said...

Sounds like a fascinating day. I really don't know anything about horses or riding horses, even though the college I part-time teach at has a really great equine program. Just one more thing to add to the list of "must investigate"...

I hear what you say about dedicated parents. One of the many things keeping me from having kids is, I honestly don't know how much time and energy I would/could devote to them! Patience is not one of my virtues. Kudos to your mom and dad!

KleoPatra said...

Aren't parents great? You and i were so lucky to get some caring ones. This post pretty much dedicated to your mom is beautiful. My parents as well, i believe, should get badges of merit as well... and they continue to be my strongest supporters... Your taking time to appreciate them and show 'em some love back is really wonderful.

Love seeing your mom on that horse. Great stories, too, that you share about your times spent with her and the horses over the years. Great insight into your world...

You might want to think about becoming a writer, Meesh. :o) Hee hee.

Fab post...

meesh said...

Bazu - I know what you mean. One of the reasons being a parent scares the you-know-what out of me is that I just don't know if I could put in the selfless time and energy like my mom did. She was amazing! Oh, and you should absolutely go check out the equestrian program at your school. Even just to swing by and pat a couple of noses.:)

Kleo - Thank you so much for that compliment! Coming from you, it means a whole lot. (((huge, bashful grin!)))